I know by the title this doesn't sound like something many of you would like to read. But don't let it stop you. I have learned pretty much all you could ever know about maintaining a long distance relationship. A lot of people jump back at the idea and don't ever give it a try. Most people think it is a waste of time and not worth it. I am here to tell you that it is so worth it. There shouldn't be hesitation because someone isn't as close as you want them to be.
Through this experience i have learned how to cope with the absence of my significant other. It is extremely hard at first and from time to time. It literally feels like someone had ripped your heart right out of your chest. But when you fill your day up with things that keep you busy it starts to get easier. I've noticed that when i'm at school and then I go to work that i'm not as mopey. It just takes a lot of strength to not let it get in your way and completely ruin any day you have.
Yes, you may think you get farther and farther apart with you're mate but that is not always the case. With me and my significant other we always talk. Whether it is on the phone or if all we can do is text, it doesn't matter. Because when they are gone for weeks at a time, the feeling you get when you see them again is something i can't explain. I never lose that excited butterfly feeling in my tummy. It's always there, whenever it gets closer and closer to us to be together again.
The time you spend together while you're in a long distance relationship is so special compared to others. You cherish every single moment you have together, it's amazing. There is nothing but smiling and laughing and loving. Everything is just perfect. I never thought that I would be able to do it, but look at me here I am still with him with almost 5 months of dealing with long distance. To me, I think it is worth it. If you love somebody that much it shouldn't be hard to go the extra mile and do long distance. Miles don't mean anything when somebody means so much.
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